
Originally Posted by
FavreToSharpe
Of these "clues" you mentioned - I can most assuredly rule out "wear out of season clothing", "opening merchandise" (expect for rare occassions when I want to find out more about what the product looks like). And IF I have ever moved from a "high-ticket area" to a bathroom - it was because I had to use the bathroom (only once in a blue moon do I have to interrupt my shopping with a trip to a bathroom. And when I do have to answer the call of nature, I usually do it either when I'm first entering a store, or as I'm leaving.). I can also pretty much completely rule out "look at the cameras" - if I ever look at the cameras, it's purely by accident. I don't even know where they are - I'm not even looking for them. (I have discussed my innocent "fascination" with store mirrors and CCTV monitors in a previous post. As you may have read, I've suppressed my natural inclination to look at these devices.)
This leaves the following:
"You fit the description of a repeat offender" - if I do fit the description of a repeat offender, I am totally unaware of this. If I am some notorious offender's doppelganger - this thief is hitting Kroger, Ingles, Whole Foods, another local "natural foods" market I like to frequent, Walmart Supercenter, and pretty much every other establishment I enter. This thief gets around, and has coincidentally shopped at all of the stores I've shopped at.
"Carry a large bag" - hmmm, "large" is a relative term. I am a woman, so I always carry a purse. But relative to the very large purses that are in fashion these days - my purse is modestly-sized. But I have often liked to carry purses that are large enough to leave some extra room for, say, carrying a 16oz. or 20oz. water bottle - or carrying some snacks. I used to always leave my purse unzipped, too - simply because of "laziness". I didn't want to bother with unzipping the purse whenever I needed to get anything out of it. But - in an effort to reduce my suspiciousness as much as possible - I've started making sure that my purse is zipped shut whenever I enter a store. And, as I'm grocery shopping, I've always carried my purse on my shoulder - I've never put the purse in the "child's seat" of the buggy (just my natural preference). I don't know if carrying my purse this way reduces suspiciousness or not. (It doesn't seem to.)
Since I do so little shopping these days (aside from grocery/toiletry shopping) - I'm rarely in a position where I'm carrying a large shopping bag into a store. A purse is the only "bag" I have.
"Doesn't buy anything when she visits the store" - wow, so if you go into a store and don't see the item(s) you specifically came into the store to buy, or you see nothing you desire to buy - you're a suspect? It is not often that I go into clothing stores these days (i.e. Marshall's, Macy's) - but when I do, I often leave empty-handed; because there was nothing there that moved me enough to make a purchase, or the store just didn't have what I was looking for. But I buy something nearly every time I go into a grocery store - and my buying a buggy full of items often doesn't prevent me from being suspected. Heck - I could be in the middle of paying for $60 worth of groceries, and I still notice certain signs that I'm being watched/suspected. I'm thinking, "Here I am about to pay you $60 of my hard-earned money, and you still think I'm shoplifting???" "Here I am exiting the store with $60 worth of rung-up groceries, and you still feel the need to give me the 'once-over'?" :confused: It is quite insulting.
So it seems - whether you leave a store empty-handed, or pay a lot of money for a cart full of items - you're going to be suspected either way.
(To be continued...)