It all depends on how you want to make it. I have seen some with the entire ram about 4" in diameter. Others have a wide plate to impact the door.
I think the thinner option is better. It allows a higher force per square inch. You can also vary the weight. It dpends if your friend wants it to be a 1-man or a 2-man ram. You can also make it hollow and then put an inner, weighted cylinder inside and then seal it up. This allows the inner part to move and it will slide giving a second impact with the inertia... pretty good stuff.
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