In Case anyone cares, I did write that to Zander, excluding the Blah, blah blahs.. Although I disagreed with Zander on many issues, I respect him and care about the guy.
If anyone sees anything wrong with that PM to him, please tell me. We can discuss it calmly.
Here is the actual PM
"Hello Zander,
How are you doing? I remember you wrote that you had some stress in your life a short while back, so I wanted to just have a one on one with you and see how you are.
I don't want to hash out issues with you, but I have noticed your posts seem angry and almost hateful lately. I am not judging you or criticizing you, but I have had periods when I am just angry, and I know how it feels.
So are you really OK? If I can do anything for you or you just want to chat about some things and get stuff off your chest and blow off some steam I would be happy to be a sounding board.
I hope you know this is really about my concern for you, and not in any way directed in a mean or critical way.
Take care."
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