Well guys I got the good news today that I may be a Dad again sometime next year possibly near the end of January. I guess I am happy about it in a way even though it will be number four lol. I just don't know how happy I can be about it right now. I am in such a tough spot in my life and I just have not been able to get ahead. I have lost everything almost and it keeps getting worse. I just don't really know what to do anymore hopefully it will get better soon.
I had some plans that I was hoping will go through to help I just hope that I can still do them.
But I guess I should be happy and I don't have as bad a life as some especially with the economy the way it is plus I have great friends and for the most part a great family that have helped me out a lot with my situation.
Wish us luck;)
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05-18-09 03:38 AM #1
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Adding another member to the family...
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05-18-09 03:57 AM #2
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Luck wished
Congrats daddy, I hope that everything goes well with your wife and yourself.Evenhand (Cop Movie): You can't be everybody's friend
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05-18-09 05:45 AM #3
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Things have a way of working out, just believe that it will....and it will.
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05-18-09 09:33 AM #4
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Congrats!!!! That is truly the best gift one could receive, enjoy! :D
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I don't know if a joyful "congrats" is in order considering your situation.
Originally Posted by drkknght
I can only imagine how torn you must feel, thinking that you should be happy to have another baby, but that it is not the best time for economic reasons.
Just remember that your "practical" worries do not in any shape, way, or form take away from your love for your child. You CAN be happy about having a child AND at the same time worry about how to feed him or her. So please don't ever feel guilty about not jumping uip and down for joy right now.
GOOD LUCK to you and your family!
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05-18-09 12:21 PM #6Jynkxxie Guest
Well, if you are into this sort of thing, just remember that...
God doesn't make mistakes. ;)
Congrats. Take good care of your wife.
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05-18-09 12:58 PM #7
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Congrats about the number four and good luck with him/her in the future
FWIW the only thing a man ever has is his word and his family. Everything else is just fiscal ;)Texas Finest
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05-20-09 11:01 PM #8
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Originally Posted by drkknght
on becoming a Dad and hope things go well with your wife's pregnancy.
Good luck with your personal affairs and hope things will take a turn for the better.Last edited by Silver Fox; 05-21-09 at 08:13 PM.
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Congratulations and good luck.
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05-21-09 09:36 PM #10
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But seriously, congrats from another soon to be father.
Just like I told my wife, everything will work out for the best.
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Thanks for all the support guys and gals my wife and I appreciate it alot. We verified the pregnancy a couple days ago it looks like we'll be expecting late January so now we get to do all of the fun doctor appointments and all the other stuff that goes along with it. On the bright side of things I'll be able to be around more and experience it a little further at least on the father end of things I was gone for my first boy and the second I was working alot of hours and different shifts.
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