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If you do let her get her ears pierced, consider taking her to a piercing shop. The only reason I say this is for hygene. Watch most stands set up in malls, etc... that use the "guns" and how they clean them. You can get a pathogen there. They don't steralize (sp) the equipment. Granted, the chance of contracting anything is low, but if it were my kid, I would want to see the needle and jewelry come out of a sealed package. Just my 2p.
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