Outside of speaking to a recruiter, I'd suggest for you to contact a couple fly clubs. I'm sure there are many Veteran Pilots belonging to various fly clubs in your area. They could provide you with a wealth of information and may possibly send you on the right path.
"The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness only that gives everything its value. I love the man that can smile in trouble; that can gather strength from distress and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink; but he whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves his conduct, will pursue his principles unto death."