I apologize for raising up an old thread, but I attended a seminar today in which the guest speaker was Dr. Bobby Smith.
A very dynamic speaker and tells it like it is.
A lot of laughter, quite a few "you could hear a pin drop" moments and some tears shed.
I could see a few young cops actually squirming a little in their seats when he spoke of the dangers of letting the job become your identity.
I would highly recommend his writings and even more so seeing him speak in person if you ever get the chance.
I rate him right up there at the top with Dr. Kevin Gilmartin.
This career is not a sprint, it is a marathon.