
Originally Posted by
Chaplain Keppy
If I may share a story about a Downs Syndrome child in my last congregation...
It was time to prepare her for first communion, and as a part of that preparation, I meet with the kids and their parents at the church and let them look everyplace and ask whatever they want to know, and we do a "practice run" with actual bread and wine so they know what to expect. So Keller and her mom and I were having a fine time at church... until it was time to try the bread and the wine. She shook her head "No" and put her hands behind her back.
Her mom got a little provoked with her and told her if she wanted to have her first communion that Sunday, she needed to cooperate.
She looked at the floor, miserable, and kept her hands behind her back.
I was puzzled. We'd been having a great time, I knew she was looking forward to being able to receive communion, this just didn't make sense to me. And she was not a verbal child, so she couldn't explain the problem.
Finally, it dawned on me what the problem might be. I asked her, "Keller, are you concerned that the rest of the congregation isn't here? That we haven't read the Bible or sung any songs?"
And she nodded her head "Yes". She hadn't realized it was a "practice run"-- she thought we were giving her a half-baked first communion.
So I explained to her that this was NOT her first communion, just preparation; that I had thought she might like to taste the wafer and wine beforehand, to know what to expect and how to receive it. I told her she didn't have to try it if she didn't want to, we'd still have her first communion Sunday.
Her face cleared, she held out her hands, tried the wafer and wine-- and then asked for seconds! :D
Incidentally, when she was really little, she'd get away from her mom during the worship service and first thing you know, she'd be up in the chancel standing next to one of the priests, holding his hand. She just wanted to be there. God bless that priest, and that congregation, for not getting bent out of shape about it!
When she was a little older, she became an acolyte, and she was great at it. Keller took her worship seriously.
Sorry for the diversion... back to National Grid....