Maybe this will help me get the right help.

[Bambi]

I guess that I didn’t make my self clear on the severity of my problem with my home invaders and my stalker. I didn’t what to get explicit but maybe someone out there will understand and be able to give me the help that I need.
I have been a widow for 16 years. I have been celibate; I have taken a religious vow of chastity. I also had to have a complete hysterectomy. (This was from cancer in the womb.) I have almost nothing left. So having a husband is out of the question…
Please don’t tell me to see a psychiatrist or counsellor, I already do this as I can’t live with what my stalker is doing to me…They help me with the mental anguish that I suffer from the home invasions.
When these demented, deranged and dangerous men or man leave me, I am left with bruising on my bottom, my back, and the bottom of my feet. This tells me that I was hobbled. When I stand up its like Niagara Falls. With a hysterectomy this evidence has no place to go but out… Sometimes I even have marks of a tazer gun on my body.
I am not ignorant to the facts of life. My childhood was very abusive and I was on the streets of Vancouver for 10 years. Almost 30 years ago…
Then I met my husband to be. My life changed and I saw how the other half lived, I liked it and stayed on the right path. I was never a drug addict but I saw lots of this. I did my fair share of the alcohol. That’s 20 years ago.
I was employed by my stalker as his daycare worker for his three children. I worked for him almost 8 years. But I found out that he is a pedophile. I caught him. I turned him in…But he never got charged. One year later he still had his children…I went back to work for him-pretending that I didn’t remember what happened to me when he kidnapped me and held me for a full month in 1996. It took me almost six months to get evidence on him. This I gave to the mother of these three beautiful damaged children... But the things that I saw in this time would put the best veteran police officer on his or her knees in the porcelain thrown room.
I am in need of some real help, how to live without him finding me etc. I thought that this was the place to come and ask for help…But from the first e-mail that I sent asking for help, most of the response’s are the same as I get from the RCMP here in BC Canada and its not a fair one. I have provided proof of my sanity and capabilities.
The horror that I have put up with and gone through is not to
be evaluated with any mental condition. Even the mentally handicap have rights to live without terror, rape, home invasions, stalking, and living in fear on a daily base's. Bounty hunters can’t do or have the same privileges that they have in the USA. This man is free he has never been charged.
This place is my last hope to find information on how to live in
safe condition's. I live a very disciplined life daily. I live like John Walsh’s most wanted…And I have never committed any crime. I am a victim, and the system is victimizing me over and over…. Bambie…
(PS) Now that my email address in on your web, I get continued xxx. This must stop…I have reported this to the abuse@shaw.

[Samuel]

The validity of an answer does not depend upon your opinion of that answer. If you are unhappy with the responses here, then I suggest that you keep searching other forums until someone else tells you what you want to hear.

[Jenna]

Bambi,

Your email addy is all over your website etc...so don't point blame at realpolice specifically (as I see you are on other boards with this info too). If you don't want your email out there, then remove it from your profile and your site.

As for your other concerns, repetitive postings will not get you anywhere. If folks believed they could help, I am sure they would.

Jenna

[Bambi]

All I want to hear is HOW to get the right help to catch this person, no more no less...I already have the highest power there is patting me on the back...Its the pat on the head that I don't need...
As for having my e-mail addy out there those are the ones that are in cyber space...The only place I put my home addy is here...So don't knock me down before I can get up...( It came from Taiwan.)
If I have angered anyone its because I'm angry, And I apologize for this offending attitude that may seep into my mail...
Thanks for telling me that I'm in the wrong place for help...

[Lfpdlieu302]

i dont think that you are necessarily in the wrong place for help, the problem is that you are not in a place where we can help you. being in canada number one poses a problem for most on this board since our jurisdiction ends at the border. i for one dont even know of one rcmp officer that i could even pass the information to. second is the fact that we are in cyberspace......we cant sit with you and let you see the look of concern that we have on our faces as we post these replies. trust me, knowing that things like this occur to people, and knowing that we cant physcially help people is almost as frustrating as what you feel. not that its very close, but it is. all i can suggest is that you stay strong, if need be bug the hell out of local law enforcement there. contact a local womens shelter if you have one, and see what kind of help they can give you. again, if you were local here, there are many more options, and things that i could personally help you with, however, thats not the case, and thats where the difficulty sets in.

[NLegaspi]

That and a hellova good psychiatrist. At first you had me going, after reading your website thingie I feel your situation is a little far fetched and beyond belief. I suggest you put yourself into a psych institute for a couple months of observation as to get a better grasp of what is really going on.

[jonesg11]

Ok heres my take on it.

1. If you feel there is a problem, keep contacting our local RCMP.

2. If you feel like you are being put off, continued contact with the RCMP will eventually get you some attention.

3. There are ways to complain if you feel that you are not being looked after as you believe you should. You can always find out where to go on the RCMP's website http://www.rcmp-grc.gc.ca/index_e.htm

4. Lastly and one of the most effective methods is to contact your MP (Member of Parliment for you Yanks) he/she is there to serve you and since we pay enough taxes in this country use them to the fullest extent.

If none of these options work, then I guess you're on your own. Probably it won't come to that, but ultimatly if all else fails personal respobsiblity must come in to play.
I hope this helps you out.

[vadep]

I'm sorry, but I can't even entertain this madness any longer. You want help? Contact your doctor & see about upping the dosage on your prozac.... better yet, check yourself into a clinic.

[911]

What is it a full moon? Where are these people coming from? is it open day at the asylum?

[vadep]

It's high time we contact the asylum and see if they can do anything about restricting access to the 'net.......