Most females do NOT like semi auto's. Most fimd them too complicated to operate, and confusing. ASK, and find out what they are comfortable with. And for god sake, let them shoot both auto/revolver at a range first, so they know what they like.
Try to get them to at LEAST qualify with the AUTO. Because if they dont, then they can't carry the small lightweight auto's that are great for CHL holders in TX ( HOT ).
It's really a case by case basis with women. Find out what they like, and go handle some guns. Do not buy them a gun as a present unless you know they like and actually want to practice with the gun.
Some women are comfortable with full frame GLock 21 .45s, some women flynch with .22 revolvers. So you gotta experiment and find out what they like and don't like. Stay away from the airweight magnums, at least at first. Most women dont like the recoil, and they wont shoot them.
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