For the brotherhood in the fed realm, you just need to be with the right guys. 
Then again, being with the right guys took me away a lot (like 6 months a year). These days, it is not nearly that bad (or good, depending on the perspective, as some missions were phenomenal). There are still some long days, as our days are dictated by the cases. But, all-in-all, you are home most evenings, holidays and weekends.
We bring evil things to evil people, kicking in a door near you!
."In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. But,
in practice, there is."
- Jan L.A. van de Snepscheut
"The difference between 'involvement' and 'commitment' is like
an eggs-and-ham breakfast: the chicken was 'involved' - the pig
was'committed'."
-unknown
Working on a PhD in CQB one doorway at a time.
When the wolf attacks, he will find not all who run with the flock are sheep!