I think I've seen more divorces when it's the wife that becomes a cop and the husband isn't. I don't know if they get more confident and get farther out of the the "traditional" roles or not. But very few that I saw coming on married stayed that way.
One problem I've seen in some marriages is that the cop wants to bring the power and authority he has at work to his home. That can make things ugly.
As far as bosses, bad ones are everywhere. I had a cartoon above my desk that showed Charlie Brown wearing a suit. The caption was, "Doing a good job is like peeing in your pants while wearing a dark suit. It feels good to you, but no one else notices".



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