Sorry to hear that. Relationships can be extremely complicated:mad:
On a light note......Im very avialable:D
Sorry to hear that. Relationships can be extremely complicated:mad:
On a light note......Im very avialable:D
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acopsgf, careers aside, when a guy pulls away from you like that, give him space. Give him tons and tons of space. If he calls you (and you need to stop contacting him) keep it brief and LIGHT. Don't try to do any relationship talk stuff whatsoever. He's a big boy and he can take care of himself just fine. Just be there for him (I really would not have sex with him, but thats just me personally) be sweet and friendly and most of all get out and live life. Be fulfilled and happy. That is one of the best things you can do for a guy and still love him (in a way that he understands love).
Before you get seriously involved with any guy, I would very highly recommend the book Love and Respect by Emerson Eggeriches. It's faith based,, but you can ignore that part and just read the stuff about what men consider loving. Your bf will thank you for it. *hugs* and all the best to you!
Last edited by lambchop; 07-07-09 at 04:04 PM.
Maybe he's treating you like this to precipitate a breakup, because he feels guilty about breaking it off and wants you to do it instead? The advice above is pretty good, I think. If a guy doesn't treat you like gold from the beginning and continue to do it all along, then it's not going to get any better; hoping won't make it so. Start to distance yourself from him emotionally; talk to him less on the phone - don't take all his calls, etc.