
Originally Posted by
Roger Dat
Personally if you dont like my advice it doesnt really bother me, take it or leave it. Sure I committed violations as a kid, I went over the speed limit not by a ton but I did. Aside from vehiclke and traffic items I did not knowingly and intentionally break any laws as a teenage KNOWING that I wanted to be a cop.
So vehicle and traffic violations are ok to break, but not drinking laws? I get it....the laws you broke were less important than the laws he broke, thus you are in a position to condemn him.
So your discretions are less severe because you weren't knowingly considering a career in law enforcement at the time? Pretty poor logic. Everyone, including LE applicants make poor decisions at times, especially when they are young.
I did not drink underage, I did not smoke, I did not drive when I wasnt supposed to, I did not possess a fake id and I certainly did not do anything that would jepordize my chance to get hired. You cannot come on this site, tell us you want to be an LEO and then proceed to say well is this excusable? How bout this?
Why not? Isn't this the purposes of this board? I think his offenses are excusable. A college age adult (18-20) who has a drink once a month certainly isn't deviant behavior in my opinion. Like I said, don't judge him, you may be in a position to give advice, but not in a position to pass judgment they way you did.
I'm a firm believer in not judging anyone until you walk a mile in their shoes. Just because you didn't make some of the same mistakes he made doesn't mean you are morally superior. Perhaps you didn't have the same kind of peer pressure he did? Perhaps your cultural and environmental surroundings were different and certain things in your household that were inappropriate were excepted in his.
Often times youngsters come on this board (15-16) and say that they would like a career in LE but have made certain mistakes (drank, smoked pot, ect.) Well, of course the morally superior members of this board jump all over them and condemn their behavior as deviant. I think this is unfair, we know that teenagers and young adults don't posses the maturity that we do, thus their decision making is flawed. They are susceptible to peer pressure, curiousity, the desire to be excepted, and their environment (family, friends, culture, ect.).
Studies show that when a teenagers brain is imaged, the area of the mind that controls spontaneity, decision making, inhabitions, and self-control isn't fully developed. This combined with other factors (peer pressure, ect.) is recipe for stupid behavior. This is why very few individuals can say that they didn't experiment with certain things (alcohol, drugs, sex) in their youth. Their thought process is really driven more by anxiety and hormones than their life long career goals.
You think Im being hard on these people? Ever sat on a hiring board to become a police officer? You tell these high ranking officers that you knew you wanted to be a cop early on but that you still, smoked weed, drank underage, had a fake ID etc and see just how well you make out.