
Originally Posted by
DesertCat
I have to disagree with another poster about the responsibilty issue... Just because a card is in collections doesn't make the person irresponsible... If anyone has had to deal with shady credit card companies in the past, they will know what I am talking about.... If you haven't, God bless you...
You're correct that just because a card is in collections doesn't necessarily mean the person is irresponsible. There are a variety of factors and typically martial and medical are those which I would consider not indicative of someone being irresponsible, but it depends on your situation. What was that 25k in debt related to? Did you guys fall on hard times or were you both spending beyond your means and you just happened to get stuck with the whole debt? These things matter in showing your maturity and responsibility regarding credit card use.
As to the shady credit card companies, you'd have to elaborate for me to have any sympathy. I work for a credit card company finding out why people are behind on their bills and trying to come up with a solution for them to get back on track well before they fall so far behind that we sell them to actual collection agencies. You may or may not believe the number of people I talk to each day who classify it as shady, ridiculous, heartless, etc. etc. etc. that we put their interest rate to 28% when they missed payments and then they blame us, rather than whatever the original situation was that caused the account to fall behind, for the fact that they can't catch up.
And I might feel bad about that if it wasn't for the fact that it says on your cardmember agreement and every statement we send out that missing payments will result in a late fee (and they put the tier on there from $15-39 depending on your balance) and could result in your interest rate being defaulted to 28.99%. There was absolutely fair warning about it, and every time you used that card signing on the line, you were agreeing to pay back whatever you purchased in accordance with that cardmember agreement.
Now, if you're not just talking collections within the credit card but actual collection agencies, yeah, some of them are ruthless, but you'd have to have not made a single payment of at least enough to clear one of your months past due for seven consecutive months in order for that to happen, and if you let your card, whether your debt alone or in combination with your wife, go that far past due without calling to try and rectify or at least inform your creditors of the situation, then you'd have a hard time convincing me that you were making any kind of responsible effort to make good on the promise you made when you signed up for that little piece of plastic.
We must all fear evil men. But there is another kind of evil which we must fear most, and that is the indifference of good men.
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