
Originally Posted by
retdetsgt
It's really hard for me to have any sympathy for people who buy houses they can't afford.
I'm no financial wiz or prophet, but I saw this coming a mile away. People have the foolish idea that lenders are looking out for the consumer's best interest. Yeah, you can get into a house with an adjustable interest rate, but it's a fool's game to think that interest rate will stay low. And when they came out with interest only loans, I knew we were headed for disaster.
More or less the same thing happened in the 70's with "balloon" payments. It was similar to the interest only in that at the end of 5 years, you were looking at a balloon payment to pay off the entire loan. When I was buying houses, more than one realtor tried to convince me that I could afford a bigger house if I went with creative financing. Meanwhile I watched a lot of handwringing as people lost their homes because interest rates had gone up and they couldn't find new financing.
I stuck with 1200-1300 sq ft houses I could afford with conventional or VA loans and did fine. Today I live in a much bigger house, but it's nearly paid off. Amazingly, I was able to raise kids in a three bedroom ranch house without any trouble at all. And my house payment was nowhere near the majority of my take home pay.
In my neighborhood, a builder put up a bunch to 3500-4000 sq ft houses and I watched young couples moving in and assumed they either had really good jobs or did some of that "creative" financing. One house had a deputy sheriff's car in the driveway and I know what he makes. I hoped his wife had a really good job. Well, apparently not because that house is now for sale for less money that the builder charged for it originally. All it took was for the prime rate to go up 1/2 a percent and about half these people were out of range of afford-ability. And I would suspect that many are up to their necks in credit card debt to furnish those places too.
We've become a society that lost all sense of delayed gratification. Instead of saving up money, we get what we want immediately on credit and then pay usury interest rates on that money. And now everyone is paying for dumb decisions as the government is now being called on to bail the lenders out.:mad:
I agree. Right before me and my wife got married, we had a modest house built in a nice neighborhood in late 2007. I make ok money, Wife makes crap money right now, but will go up when she gets a bit more job experiance (she has two college degree's, hopefully she'll make more than her $20k now eventually). But, when me and her parents (their wedding gift was a gift for a downpayment) sat down with the builder, and talked over finances and what we could afford, they tried to sell us a house that was much bigger than what we could afford. I refused to buy a house that based on our current (low) budget, I could not afford, even though the mortgage company said we could.
Instead, we got our current house with a fixed rate for a 30 year loan and it's something we could afford. I think people want the instant gratification of something they can't afford and tried to get creative in getting it. And of course, it backfired in their face.
However, I think in the next few years we'll probably sell it, as I'm seeing a ton of less than desirable people move into the houses in the neighborhood. I think that's another down side to the current market. Scummy people who infested the rat holes of the worst neighborhoods can now afford nice houses in decent neighborhoods and are moving in. We've had some real trash move in recently and I NEVER see their cars gone for work.. :rolleyes:
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