Hey all,
I had my BI today for a large dept. I was brutally honest, and I still consider I have a good background. NO TICKETS, NO POLICE CONTACT, NO ACCIDENTS. Some marijuana usage in highschool and first year of college. Owned up to it like I have through the whole process. 'While an adult ever slept with anyone underage?' Included the fact I was 18 my girlfriend was 17. 'Have sex in a public place or in a place visible to others?' Yes outside by my parents pool. 'Taken medication not perscribed to you?' My parents in high school would give me a vicodin of theirs if I started to get a migraine or sometime after a football game. (I was an All-Leaguer Runningback 2 years in a row in So. Cal. WHITE running back interestingly enough, by the way, and let's just say one of teams we handled was Compton so I got my pink *** kicked pretty hard. No discussions bout race and athletics) BTW, at the time I did not know it was illegal to do take their medication. 'Ever been physically abused in a relationship?' LOL, I talked about a time an ex I was still sleeping with slapped me after I called her a coke head after she did coke for the first time. (She was g****n lucky I have a cool head in situations like that. Having 4 sisters helped.)
Oh BTW, by calling her a coke head I had to fess up to 'Have I ever said anything I was in an intimate relationship with something intentionally hurtful?' Ummmm... 'How many times have I been to the point I knew I was drunk and could not take care of my property?' I put 50 times. Sounds like alot. I went to Arizona State and was involved in a huge fraternity house, and as a new 21 year old liked to do my fare share of boozing. Also during law school, going out on weekends and getting trashed took the stress off alot, but did not affect my work. 'Driven while I felt I may have had to much to drink?' I put 3 different occasions dealing with around 4-5 drinks and less then a mile to drive. This occurred in a 3 month period after I turned 21. 3 Years ago.
So? They want me to be honest. I could have not included alot of things that they would have never found out. I know they are looking for personality traits. But hell, I'm trying to get into heaven not running for Jesus! BTW, the guy who looked at my paperwork was SUCH SUCH an *******. Every other BI was so nice. Oh well. Luck of the draw. What u all think? I applied to 10 other different departments too. On the 4 I've heard back from, I've scored in top 10% on tests and orals. :mad: :mad: Le0


