
Originally Posted by
Cat_Doc
The lawyer is correct; as long as you are the biological father listed on their birth certificates, you were legally married and there is no court order regarding child custody.
Be aware that Arizona leans heavily toward the biological mother having primary custody, especially if she can financially provide for them. If you are a stay at home dad and not earning an income, I foresee an uphill battle for you. You did not describe an environment that would cause the police to intervene. Outside of identified criminal activity, the police would only call CPS and turn it over to them.
As mentioned, you should contact and retain an attorney to fight for you.
By the way, you should read that Order of Protection again. It will have an affidavit attached indicating the specific allegations made by your wife and it gives you instructions on how to schedule a hearing in front of the judge to contest the order. You only have a short window of time to do this, so read the order again or call the issuing court and let them know you want to contest the order.
Here in PA when you first get a PFA (protection order) it will usually include a section that gives what the child custody arrangements are until a final order is granted. I take it AZ doesnt do it that way??
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