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    im married going through a divorce i moved out and my husband brought his girlfriend into our house. my husband and my name are on the deed to the house not hers. can i have her kicked out of my house.

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    bavalos, first of all, Welcome to RP from the Florida Panhandle! We're glad you found our site. However, we usually ask our newest members to go to the New Member Introductions forum and post a thread telling us a bit about yourself. Coming into our online home and just hammering away with questions is considered bad form here at RP.

    As for answering your question, I can only do it generally because we have no idea where you are living (country, state, etc.), and not much more information at all. But generally, if both you and your husband are still living in the house and he invites her in, there is not much you can do other than to leave. Since the house is in both your names, and both of you are living there, he has every right to invite someone into "his" house, just as you would have the same right to invite someone into "your" house. If you two are NOT living together, that may change things, depending on who has use of the house. If it is you, and your soon to be ex is there at your will, then you should have the right to kick her out. Or at the very least tell him she's not welcome there.

    Your best bet would be to call your local law enforcement agency and ask them as they would know where you are and what the local laws are.
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    If you have a lawyer, contact him/her. You've got a domestic beehive there and I suspect this is only the tip of the iceberg. The police aren't going to be able to do as much as your lawyer. A judge will often award temporary custody of the house to one of the parties and they will have rights until the divorce and the final decree awards it.
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    You just gotta realize he is hard of hearing and cranky, and try to speak up more clearly next time and make it perfectly clear what you were saying so there is no misinterpretation. You gotta try not to get mad at the old guy, recognizing the issue at hand.

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    You and he can each bring a guest over and there is NOTHING that Law Enforcement can do. If there was, the next time you bring your mother over, he will have the police throw her out. Where would it end ?
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    NO, I don't see how you could. Its' over go on.

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    Why engage in the drama? You are divorced and don't want to be with him....just move on. Your interest in his life and what he does should not even be on the horizon.
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    Aren't divorces fun.
    Sheesh, this is what I'd classify as a civil matter. Your relief will come from the civil courts..........and a decent lawyer.
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    icu650 and Joeyd6 hit the nail on the head.
    Good luck to you, bavalos.
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