Rape a DQ?

[Ispbear]

Kristin, I'll be honest with you. I haven't read all of your replies or this entire thread. The first thing that stuck out is that your family didn't want you to pursue a criminal charge against your uncle and you have made peace with him for the family's sake.

Get the hell away from your family, they are sick people and worthless excuses for parent. I will tell you if someone did that to my child, I would be typing replies from prison. The fact that they are more concerned about what problems it would bring to the family discusses me.

Do you let your child go to your parents house unattended? Do you let your child around your Uncle? I won't go any farther, but you seem intelligent enough to see what I'm getting at.

IMHO, you need to seek some counseling, move far away and cut all contact with your family, and focus on making a better life for you and your child. Nothing you have posted would DQ you, but your decision making processes as an adult will tell if you are emotionally sound enough to do the job.

[kristinjoanne]

That side of the family is pretty much out of my life thankfully. My uncle quit his job and moved in with my aunt. He tried to get into law enforcement but they wouldn't touch him.

As for my daughter she stays with my grandmother while I'm in classes. Not my favorite arrangement but they are the better side of my family. I am in classes 8am til almost 7pm sometimes...this month its only til 4pm so its hard to find a sitter for those hours.

I plan on cutting all ties once I am able to strike out on my own.