I am terrified and need help, please.

[Miss Jack]

Long story short, I married my baby's father this year. He is an illegal immigrant. I did it for my son because they say a child with only one parent doesn't adjust well. I was not initially with my husband because I think he is a bully and a chauvinist. But, he loves his son, he has a job (that he's had forever) and I want my son to have his father. So I married him. I know now it was a mistake. I am afraid of him. I believe he would harm me given the chance. I don't believe he would harm my son, but I am terrified - daily - that he will run off with my son on a whim. He has a temper. If he were the only thing I feared, I would have divorced him and gotten a restraining order. But, I am scared that he might do something drastic or worse, his friends might in "his defense". I see only two options. Run away with my child, leaving my home, my job, and everything I know (I will do it for my son if I have to) or somehow get him deported. But, if he knows . . . if he finds out I did it, his friends will find me. And I heard I could go to jail for marrying him in the first place. Please help me, Officers. I do not want to lose my entire life, but I WILL NOT lose my child. I made a mistake. I thought I was doing what was right. Now I don't know what to do.

[retdetsgt]

Go talk to a lawyer. The police can't do much to help you until after bad things happen. Get to an attorney ASAP.

[Big Sexy]

Call 1-866-DHS-2ICE. You can remain anonymous, if that is your desire, but give as much info on him as you can. Date of birth, full & true name, type of vehicle driven, if known to carry weaponry, gang association if any, address, times he's home, place of employment, etc, etc.

[greg72982]

I thought illegal immigrants were quiet, peaceful people?

[GoDirectly2Jail]

...who only want to come here to make a living...

[Ispbear]

.....and marry desperate women who put themselves into bad situations....

[ChevySSP]

I think the irony here is that the majority of the hispanic vote is in favor of the AZ law.

In fact...I think that the main reason our govenor has lost so much of the hispanic support is because he doesn't support an immigration bill.

[Miss Jack]

Thank you both for your help and concern. I will call this number tomorrow and seek legal advice as well.

[Miss Jack]

Most immigrants ARE peacable people looking for a new life. My husband is just a single jack@ss. I met more than a few white jack@asses. And black ones. It doesn't really matter.

[manahmanah]

Most immigrants ARE peacable people looking for a new life. My husband is just a single jack@ss. I met more than a few white jack@asses. And black ones. It doesn't really matter.

I'm not talking about immigrants, I'm talking about ILLEGAL ALIENS. Our country is so overpopulated, overtaxed, no jobs and excessive prison, jail and classroom sizes, with illegal aliens playing a large part in it. There is a right and wrong way to come here. If you have nothing to offer this nation you should not be allowed in. America has enough problems as it is without having to worry about the problems non citizen criminals bring.