My wife frowns upon me joining any dating sites.
Unfortunately, my neighbors knew before I even moved in. When I bought my houses, the realtor spread what I did to many of the neighbors before I even countereed with a bid on the house!
In most intances, it is on a case-by-case basis. It is not hard to figure out in the context of things if there is any need/harm for it to be disclosed. If I feel like keeping it to myself, it goes just like each time that I am on a plane... I revert back to my old job, working in a cancer research lab. I can bore them with science talk good enough that they will not ask me a second question about what I do.
We bring evil things to evil people, kicking in a door near you!
."In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. But,
in practice, there is."
- Jan L.A. van de Snepscheut
"The difference between 'involvement' and 'commitment' is like
an eggs-and-ham breakfast: the chicken was 'involved' - the pig
was'committed'."
-unknown
Working on a PhD in CQB one doorway at a time.
When the wolf attacks, he will find not all who run with the flock are sheep!