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    advice

    I know this threads probably pointless and i probably shouldnt be posting this, but i need some advice and help. I'm a girl. i live in a small town and i have a stalker. he follows me to and from work, and has done things, and threatened me. this guy is a lot older then me and as far as i know he was an ex cop. what can i do? I'm worried.

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    Call the police.

    Kind of what you did here except none of us can do anything for you.
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    Thanx

    how do i know if theyll believe me or can help me. i'm afraid if i go to the police it will make the situation worse. I cant handle much more. I really cant

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterflykizzes View Post
    how do i know if theyll believe me or can help me. i'm afraid if i go to the police it will make the situation worse. I cant handle much more. I really cant
    If you do anything , something bad WILL happen. Call the police , tell them everything that has happened being as specific as possible.

    Why would it make things worse ? Is this guy an ex-______________ ???
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    umm

    no its a guy online that got my address. i just turned 21 and hes 39 he claims to be an ex cop. i never dated him. I know he has a gun, a tazer, badge, police lightbars. he started following me at first and saying he loved me and wanted a baby with me. it got worse not to long after with threats calls stalking and worse. i dont want to go to someone and get hurt more then i am. i'm afraid. and i'm not even so sure its a good idea to be talking here

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    Call the police. You have no other choice. As said before, we can't do a thing for you on line. Don't worry about what he used to be. We just jailed an active officer of harassing women.
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    You just gotta realize he is hard of hearing and cranky, and try to speak up more clearly next time and make it perfectly clear what you were saying so there is no misinterpretation. You gotta try not to get mad at the old guy, recognizing the issue at hand.

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    Honestly, there's nothing we can do for you here. You've already been told to call your police department. The more time you waste on the internet "searching" for an answer that's acceptable, the more time you've wasted not notifying the people that NEED to know.

    Go grab your phone and call your local police department.
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    thanx

    well thanx for the advice to you all i guess

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterflykizzes View Post
    he claims to be an ex cop. i never dated him. I know he has a gun, a tazer, badge, police lightbars.
    He's not a cop, and never was. Call the police.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterflykizzes View Post
    well thanx for the advice to you all i guess
    You guess? What kind of answer is that?

    You asked our advice about your problem. We gave you the only answer possible, call your local PD.

    No one here can do anything about your problem. Your local PD can. It dosen't matter if this guy is a former or current officer. Go to your local PD explain it to them and let them handle it. Remember this is the internet none of us even knows who you are or where you live let alone can do something about your stalker.
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    Wrong door, buddy

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    Quote Originally Posted by BP348 View Post
    You guess? What kind of answer is that?

    You asked our advice about your problem. We gave you the only answer possible, call your local PD.

    No one here can do anything about your problem. Your local PD can. It dosen't matter if this guy is a former or current officer. Go to your local PD explain it to them and let them handle it. Remember this is the internet none of us even knows who you are or where you live let alone can do something about your stalker.
    Why, BP... can't you use your Teleportation device that RP issued to us Verifieds to atomise yourself thru your MagicJack to be right beside her to dial the telephone for her?

    Is yours broken?:confused:

    Mine is being used by a Congaline to visit the Heffner Mansion at the moment, otherwise I'd be there like, yesterday... ;)
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    Don't be a victim, go on the attack!

    Record the guy's behavior. Take pictures, video and ask him to smile for the camera. Deliver it all to the local PD and/or upload it to your facebook/myspace page. Send it to his employer, wife, girlfriend, mom, local paper. Have some fun with it. Bullies (stalkers) are almost always cowards, don't let him intimidate you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by creeker View Post
    why, bp... Can't you use your teleportation device that rp issued to us verifieds to atomise yourself thru your magicjack to be right beside her to dial the telephone for her?

    Is yours broken?:confused:

    Mine is being used by a congaline to visit the heffner mansion at the moment, otherwise i'd be there like, yesterday... ;)
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    Wrong door, buddy

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    And if you still feel unsafe, depending on the state you live in you can go to a class and get a handgun permit or a ccw. I am not saying just pull out a gun and use it on some guy that is following you, but if he gets more agressive this would be an option for you to use. Going to the PD is the right answer but you can do things to help yourself out too. Good Luck

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    ugh

    its so easy for half of you to throw around go to the pd theyll help you. hes not a cop ect. really how would any other girl feel going to the pd when a guy has put his hands on her. threatened her. used a weapen on her. shot himself infront of her. i didnt say any of you could help me so stop saying you cant ok. ugh just nevermind i'm done asking bye

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