Moving out at 17(Hawaii)

[mokoto808]

My girlfriend wants to move in with me after she graduates this year. we are both working and i am currently living on my own and supporting myself. How ever her mom wants to keep her at home. We both feel that her current environment isn't very safe for her. Her parents are divorced and her father currently filed for bankruptcy and also a drunk. Her mother is renting their current house with her boyfriend (who are also both drunks). Her sister threatens to kill our baby(She is currently 3 months pregnant). Her mother is very irresponsible in my opinion. She neglects to buy food for the house. They also have 3 cats, 5 birds, 2 turtles, 5 birds, a rabbit, and a mouse. The animals are taken care of more then her children (2 daughters). The mother doesn't do any cleaning in the house as well. she makes her daughters clean it while she gets drunk (every day and i do mean 7 days a week) the my girlfriends sister and mother would also leave the dishes in the sink for about a week before they clean it as well. Her younger sister has been arrested twice for stealing, also we have given her mother proof of her younger sister going to late night parties and getting drugged up (her sister smokes weed and takes ecstasy) and does nothing about it. I am currently working on trying to see how i can get some physical proof of her mothers neglect so that i can have cps take her younger sister away. I feel she needs to be in a better environment so that she can do something with her life. Thank you. Let me know if you need any further information and i will be happy to oblige.

[Curt581]

There wouldn't happen to be a trailer or a Camaro up on blocks somewhere in that tale of woe, would there?

Lots of empty Budweiser bottles?

I think I've been to that place.

[mokoto808]

no they live in makakilo. they don't have a camero. but they do have piles of beer bottles in the cases. one of they're uncle comes once a week to recycle them on avg there's about 30 cases a week from what i've counted. that doesn't included when they go to the bars. and the inside of the house smells. the worst smell is in the younger sisters room. i don't even know how to describe it. it's kind of a sour smell and really unique. from what my girlfriend tells me her sister doesn't take a shower. I kind of believe it. I've slept over a few times and i've never seen her sister take a shower or even seen her with her hair wet so i don't know.

[mcsap]

What you describe isn't good but you really screwed things up by getting her pregnant at age 17.

That was truly dumb. Try not to repeat this in the near future.

[Sgt. Slaughter]

I may have missed it, but I failed to see a question in either post. Somehow I didn't think you were bragging, but I'm not sure what it is you're wanting by posting declarative statements in the Ask A Cop section of a police forum.

[Roger Dat]

At 17 your not going to be able to save her from the world. You will need help and good support to raise this child properly. Please dont forget that.