Want to return stolen car. Not sure how.

[Samuel]

::click:: ignore... :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[Piggy]

Samuel, do you think we should file for visitation on the child after it's born? After all, we will be supporting the little fella for the next 18 years. At least until he carries on family tradition and goes to prison himself.

[Joeyd6]

Things aren't that easy. If I rat him out...then I have nowhere to go. I'm 19...he's much older...and I totally depend on him for pretty much everything since I was 16...

Then head to a womens shelter and ask for help.

I never got to finish high school...work a min wage job.

You made a choice. Like the one in front of you know. Instead of the easy route, why not try our way, whihc may not be easy, but put you ahead in the end?

There's really only one other way for me to make good money...and I don't want to never ever go there...because that's what my mother did...and she disappeered on me.

There are plenty of ways to make good money without sex and dancing.

I'm NOT a thug...I haven't done anything illegal in my life...and I want to keep it that way.

Too late casue now you are harboring a fugitive, in posession of stolen property, and I am sure the car was reported stolen (and you know where it is) so you are obstructing a government investigation.

Bash me all you want...but I'm not a criminal...and I sure as hell didn't come to a cop site asking how to comitt crimes. It's easy to comitt crimes...I can learn from my bf...it's doing the right thing that's hard.

Doing the right thing is never easy.

I just thought that maybe someone could tell me what options people have to (safely) return something stolen.

We did. You just don't like our answer. This ain't Burger King. We do it our way here.

Geez...you can drop babies off at the police station with no questions asked...but not a gd car?

Yeah, because babies are legal, stolen cars are not!

And yeah...if I'm pregnant that's probably what I'm gonna do...I have a thug father...so I know what it's like...

Good luck!

[Taz_bb2]

Our choices in life determine what options are available to us later on down the road.

You have CHOSEN to drop out of school and hook up with a criminal douchebag. That choice narrows down your options. I'll lay them out for you.

1) Ignore the stolen car in the garage and take the long list of felonies that WILL come down when it is discovered. I'm not even throwing in the drug dealer that it was stolen from and the possible ramifications of that. Lets just say that if he finds out where it is, you will most likely never have to worry about raising a child in this world.

2) Call the cops, cooperate fully, and accept whatever happens. See, its not like you were out frolicking in the woods and came across this car. ITS IN YOUR GARAGE!!! You can't feign ignorance that it wasn't there or where it came from. Your BF will go to jail, and you might as well. At least there, you will get taxpayer support for your pregnancy. On behalf of ALL taxpayers who have to support you due to your lack of common sense, you're welcome.:mad:

3) Leave now. I don't care how bad it will be in this other state, I'm almost willing to bet that it will be better than jail. By taking this option, you remove yourself from the volatile situation and let the no good pimp/douchbag/idiot hang for his crimes.

Option 3 is your best bet, and your only chance to stay on this side of a clean record. You want to change your life? Its going to take some hard choices and even harder determination on your part to change your future. I'd also look up adoption agencies in the other state and start coordinating with them for adoption. I won't preach to you about your sexual indiscretions, but your judgement leaves a lot to be desired.

If it were me, I'd be packing right now for a road trip.

[ShelBel]

Then head to a womens shelter and ask for help.

Hmmm...I never even thought of that...but don't you have to be like all beat up to go there? He hits me once in a while...but not that bad...and I have no bruises right now. Can I still go there...or will they just say I made it up?

You made a choice. Like the one in front of you know. Instead of the easy route, why not try our way, whihc may not be easy, but put you ahead in the end?

Not finishing high school wasn't really my choice...my father went to prison when I was 16...my mother had already disappeered when I was 13...and my school needed a parent to sign all the papers. I was afraid they'd put me in some foster home if they found out...so I never returned to school...but moved in with my bf. :(

There are plenty of ways to make good money without sex and dancing.

Not for me...not with my f'ed up life... My bf keeps telling me its the only thing I'm good at...but I don't want to end up like my mother. :(

Too late casue now you are harboring a fugitive, in posession of stolen property, and I am sure the car was reported stolen (and you know where it is) so you are obstructing a government investigation.

Am I harboring my bf even though it is his house and garage? I can't make him leave his own place! I don't no if a drug dealer would report his car stolen? But let's say I call the cops and tell them everything...will I still be in trouble...because I have already waited a few days?


Maybe I'll call the station here from his house phone and ask the same question I asked you about returning a stolen car (without giving details)...and if they think it's a "prank"...then oh well...I've done my part...and if they believe me...then they'll do whatever they need to do.

Doing the right thing is never easy.

I'm lucky I can even tell right from wrong at all...where would I learn that with a prostitute mother, felon father, and thug bf? I'm sure some of you here have had a rough childhood too...but most probably came from a decent home...and decent parents. And if you have kids...they are lucky too...and will probably become decent people...but not everybody is that lucky...and we deserve a chance too. :(

[Citicop]

Hmmm...I never even thought of that...but don't you have to be like all beat up to go there? He hits me once in a while...but not that bad...and I have no bruises right now. Can I still go there...or will they just say I made it up?

What do you have to lose by going there and trying? You are in an abusive situation even if you aren't currently injured.

Not finishing high school wasn't really my choice...my father went to prison when I was 16...my mother had already disappeered when I was 13...and my school needed a parent to sign all the papers. I was afraid they'd put me in some foster home if they found out...so I never returned to school...but moved in with my bf. :(

Do you see how you CHOSE your boyfriend over a state facility where a caring adult might have looked after you and taught you something while you stayed in school? You always have a choice.

Not for me...not with my f'ed up life... My bf keeps telling me its the only thing I'm good at...but I don't want to end up like my mother. :(

Well if he only hits you "sometimes" and gives you that kind of loving encouragement, I see why you'd want to stay.

get out. Get Out. GET OUT!

Am I harboring my bf even though it is his house and garage? I can't make him leave his own place! I don't no if a drug dealer would report his car stolen? But let's say I call the cops and tell them everything...will I still be in trouble...because I have already waited a few days?

Look. You have three options.

1.) Do nothing and continue with your life as it is.
2.) Call the police and come clean about what happened.
3.) Leave the whole situation and start over somewhere else.

EACH of those has serious consequences. Each of those is going to be no fun at the beginning.

The question you need to be asking yourself is: Which of them have the opportunity for something better later on?

Maybe I'll call the station here from his house phone and ask the same question I asked you about returning a stolen car (without giving details)...and if they think it's a "prank"...then oh well...I've done my part...and if they believe me...then they'll do whatever they need to do.

That's a cop out. They won't be able to do anything without specific information from you. Your thug boyfriend has constitutional rights, you see... and without Probable Cause, the cops can't just go looking through his garage to see what might be in there. Pick a side here.

I'm lucky I can even tell right from wrong at all...where would I learn that with a prostitute mother, felon father, and thug bf? I'm sure some of you here have had a rough childhood too...but most probably came from a decent home...and decent parents. And if you have kids...they are lucky too...and will probably become decent people...but not everybody is that lucky...and we deserve a chance too. :(

I can't even imagine what you've gone through. I do feel sorry for you. But much of this is because you have made very poor decisions for your whole life.

If you don't start making better decisions, then nothing will ever change for you.

-Citicop.

[ShelBel]

Look. You have three options.

1.) Do nothing and continue with your life as it is.
2.) Call the police and come clean about what happened.
3.) Leave the whole situation and start over somewhere else.

EACH of those has serious consequences. Each of those is going to be no fun at the beginning.

The question you need to be asking yourself is: Which of them have the opportunity for something better later on?

#1...not really an option...because sooner or later something bad's gonna happen.

#2...I have no idea what would happen to me legally...I don't know if I'm guilty of a crime already...even if I come clean and cooperate?? Would need to be combined with #3...because...if my bf finds out I ratted him out...he will kill me...which actually makes #2 an even better option...and would solve all my problems incl. the pregnancy.

#3...seems like the best option...easiest in some ways...I guess...I just need to figure out how to survive and start a new life without having to do something ilegal... Now here's my question...if I just pack up and leave...but later the whole car thing comes up...and somehow the cops find me...what can they charge me with??? So maybe I should leave and then call them with details???

[pac201]

uhh, I don't want to rain on your parade, but if the bf says you stole the car, the drugs were yours and you're just mad and trying to set him up...just food for thought.

[Piggy]

Go to the shelter and then call the Police. Make sure you get all your personal property BEFORE you leave.

[cntryboy0531]

Frankly I think your boyfriend is probably full of sh*t. I doubt he just happened to steal a car and it just happened to have drugs and such in it. He probably knew it belonged to a drug dealer and as such, stole it hoping for dope and money. Honestly, it could even be worse than that. Best case scenerio.. He goes to jail. Worst case, local dope slinger shows up at your door with his friends and kills you all.

Now, you made the decision to date into the "thug life", sucks doesn't it? Not exactly all fun and games as described in rap music, etc?

You need to pack up your crap, and leave. Go to a Domestic Violence shelter. Call the police from there and tell them EVERYTHING. If you can't find a shelter, pack your stuff up, leave, and call the police. No matter what, call the police and let them know what happened.

To echo the sentiments of other members here, thank you for reproducing with a low life piece of trash, so that your child and you will spend the next 18 years or more mooching off public assistance :mad: .

Call the police.. Or just stay put and wait for what's possibly coming your way.

[Creeker]

I foresee a "Home Invasion" call in someone's Jurisdiction...

:cool:

[ShelBel]

Frankly I think your boyfriend is probably full of sh*t. I doubt he just happened to steal a car and it just happened to have drugs and such in it. He probably knew it belonged to a drug dealer and as such, stole it hoping for dope and money.

I've thought of that too...because when I told him to return the car he said he wouldn't mind...but not the dope and money. Besides...he has a nice car already...so yeah...you're probably right. I don't know...he might be selling stolen cars tho...

Worst case, local dope slinger shows up at your door with his friends and kills you all.

I've thought of that possibiity...and it probably wouldn't be the worst thing to happen. :(

Now, you made the decision to date into the "thug life", sucks doesn't it? Not exactly all fun and games as described in rap music, etc?

No, I was born into the thug life...and I've been trying really hard not to become one myself. I probably found out that it wasnt all fun and games before I could even talk. I'm not some spoiled rich daddy's girl who thinks its cool to date a 'bad boy'...this is not a game for me. My mother disapeered on me and I dont no if she's even alive...most likely not...my father won't be out of prison until I'm in my forties...and it'll be a bit late to be a parent then. My bf was the only person that I could rely on when my parents dropped out of my life...he was the one who gave me love and afection...and a place to stay...and food to eat...I'm still with him out of grattitude. I owe him for everything he has done for me.

You need to pack up your crap, and leave. Go to a Domestic Violence shelter. Call the police from there and tell them EVERYTHING. If you can't find a shelter, pack your stuff up, leave, and call the police. No matter what, call the police and let them know what happened.

Yeah...sounds like that's what I'll have to do......

To echo the sentiments of other members here, thank you for reproducing with a low life piece of trash, so that your child and you will spend the next 18 years or more mooching off public assistance :mad: .

I don't know what to say about that...I'll try to support myself and my child...if I'm pregnant...but I don't know if I can. :(

Call the police.. Or just stay put and wait for what's possibly coming your way.

The police it is...I think...

[Cat_Doc]

This has to be a prank

IBTL

I suspect this is the same person who has come on here, of late, under different user names, posting some of the strangest crap I have seen in a long time.

Of course, I could be wrong, but I doubt it. The writing style, evolution from initial post, etc., all reeks of someone having a blast messing with the cops.

I agree with Sam, CLICK.

[Creeker]

I suspect this is the same person who has come on here, of late, under different user names, posting some of the strangest crap I have seen in a long time.

Of course, I could be wrong, but I doubt it. The writing style, evolution from initial post, etc., all reeks of someone having a blast messing with the cops.

I agree with Sam, CLICK.

Yeah, make that 3 clicks.

Its run its course, regardless.

[canuckofapeach]

I suspect this is the same person who has come on here, of late, under different user names, posting some of the strangest crap I have seen in a long time.

Of course, I could be wrong, but I doubt it. The writing style, evolution from initial post, etc., all reeks of someone having a blast messing with the cops.

I agree with Sam, CLICK.

Sorry to post here, but Cat_Doc is on to something and it's time to close this fresh hell.