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    Recently false allegations were made to CYS by my neighbor's son regarding my fiancee and the case is being closed because of there being no evidence. The child who made the allegations is mentally impaired and has several diagnosis, which he takes several medications for. The child is proven to be lying due to the evidence we provided. Now, what can be done to make this child know he is NOT above the law because there needs to be consequences for his behavior, as well as the behavior of his mother.:mad:

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    Quote Originally Posted by retdetsgt View Post
    If the child has mental problems and not in reality, not much anybody can do, is there?
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    ^^^ What Sarge said.
    There is something that can be done, but it's not being done. If my daughter had a wire on her and they put the kids together somewhere, I know she could get it out of him why he's lying and then the police could take the kid away from his mother temporarily and preferrably put him into state custody in Shuman Center because he is diagnosed with ODD and has conduct disorder. His Dad just got out of jail about a month ago for buying crack (according to the mom). And when we decided at that point not to watch her kid for her anymore, she called CYS and the next day they were at my house. Riddle me this batman...:mad: Why are they entitled to revengeful lying sociopathic behavior as a family and not have any consequences???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda2008 View Post
    Riddle me this batman...:mad:
    You went from appearing to be a concerned parent to complete nut job in just one post. This is your one warning: if you can't act like an adult on this site, you don't get to continue your membership here. There is no reason for attitude to be shown towards us. We don't know you or your circumstances, and frankly, it seems that we're probably better off with it that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda2008 View Post
    There is something that can be done, but it's not being done. If my daughter had a wire on her and they put the kids together somewhere, I know she could get it out of him why he's lying and then the police could take the kid away from his mother temporarily and preferrably put him into state custody in Shuman Center because he is diagnosed with ODD and has conduct disorder. His Dad just got out of jail about a month ago for buying crack (according to the mom). And when we decided at that point not to watch her kid for her anymore, she called CYS and the next day they were at my house. Riddle me this batman...:mad: Why are they entitled to revengeful lying sociopathic behavior as a family and not have any consequences???
    But what if this other child discovers the wire, and then harms or kills your child? Then you'll be charged with child endangerment, and possible criminally negligent homicide.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda2008 View Post
    There is something that can be done, but it's not being done. If my daughter had a wire on her and they put the kids together somewhere, I know she could get it out of him why he's lying and then the police could take the kid away from his mother temporarily and preferrably put him into state custody in Shuman Center because he is diagnosed with ODD and has conduct disorder. His Dad just got out of jail about a month ago for buying crack (according to the mom). And when we decided at that point not to watch her kid for her anymore, she called CYS and the next day they were at my house. Riddle me this batman...:mad: Why are they entitled to revengeful lying sociopathic behavior as a family and not have any consequences???
    Interesting second post you have there. I have a few questions of my own...

    A wire? If the other kid finds it would your daughter have to go in the Children's Witness Protection Program, and if so would the Feds pay for you to enter the program with her?

    How old is the neighbor's child and is there a law where you live, unknown to me, that it is illegal for a child to lie? Who "diagnosed" the neighbor's child with anything and how would you know about it?

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    What were the specific allegations made against you? Are you certain the allegations were made out of a desire for "revenge" for you not babysitting their child, as opposed to genuine concern that your child is neglected or abused?
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    Rhonda,

    If the child you speak of is truly mentally impaired, then he is incapable of knowingly lying or has been coached.

    Your fiancée apparently walked away from the allegation and you have done the right thing by breaking all contact.

    Let sleeping dogs lie, put the yearning for revenge to bed and sweep your own porch before you sweep your neighbor’s.

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    I wonder if I was married to her once?:confused:
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    You just gotta realize he is hard of hearing and cranky, and try to speak up more clearly next time and make it perfectly clear what you were saying so there is no misinterpretation. You gotta try not to get mad at the old guy, recognizing the issue at hand.

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    How old is the kid in question? How old is your child? Is your ex wanting to do anything about it or is it just you? Because if the allegations were directed at your ex, and had nothing to do, HE's the one that would be able to do anything about it. If the allegations weren't directed at you, there is nothing you can do to get him back.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda2008 View Post
    The child is proven to be lying due to the evidence we provided.
    So quit worrying about it now. Don't associate with the person, or their family again and you have a great defense if you get accused of something.


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    Quote Originally Posted by retdetsgt View Post
    I wonder if I was married to her once?:confused:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda2008 View Post
    what can be done...
    You can move. No more neighbor issue.

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    wtf???

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