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[Lostincolorado]

Hey... New to the site and need some advice on my current dilemma.

I'm currently going through some major drama with the mother of my daughter. Basically she is doing everything in her power to make my life hell, and because Colorado is a mothers state she can pretty much get away with it. A prime example of this is my daughter was a preemie (Born at 32 weeks). While my daughter was in the hospital she needed a blood transfusion due to low red blood cells. I donated blood for my daughter; and I come to find out that the mother of my child refuses to use my blood for the transfusion. Because we aren't married, she has all say in the medical for our child until we go to custody court. Basically I had to go into the hospital and raise hell, and her excuse for denying my blood was she said I had been to Iraq less than a year ago (I'm prior service military, and apparently they won't accept your blood for a transfusion if you've been out of country under a year). I've known her for over 2 years and she knows I hadn't been out of country, she was just doing it because she can. It took for me to bring in paperwork stating that I got back from Iraq in Feb of 06, and the doctors to say if subpoena'd for the child custody suit they would testify that she denied my blood for no reason other than spite. She had no choice but to give in and accept my blood for our daughter so she wouldn't look like a negligent mother in court.

She has furniture in her house. I want to get it back. First she says she wants storage fees from me for the furniture... After me getting upset and saying I'm not paying a dime... I finally give in and offer to pay the storage fees because I need the furniture for my apartment. I get a call from her stepfather saying no, and she told him I had given her the furniture as a gift and she won't give it back. There was never a verbal or written agreement for the storage fees, and I have NEVER said she can have the furniture. The problem is the furniture isn't mine, it is my brothers who was lending it to me until he relocates to CO from NJ. What exactly can I do? I have receipts for the furniture that my brother paid for, and written statements notorized from my brother stating he never gave the furniture to her, or I, and loaned it to us temporarily. Am I stuck? Is there a way to get the furniture back? Please help me! :confused:

[nemesis1670]

[ Am I stuck? Is there a way to get the furniture back? Please help me! :confused:[/QUOTE]



It is a civil situation. You (or more likely, your brother) will need to sue her in civil court.

[Creeker]

Civil, civil, civil.

Meanwhile, get into Family Court and start making child support payments.

If nothing else it will help establish that you are willing to do right by your child... who is your responsibility.

[retdetsgt]

Get the meanest, most unethcial lawyer you can find and do everything he says.

[mcsap]

Get the meanest, most unethcial lawyer you can find and do everything he says.

Time to fight back.