Being Threatened

[lax854]

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Thanks for clearing that up. I don't really think I decided to remain in the situation. I was just hoping it would blow over or... maybe I was just in denial that it was that serious. But How is her following me to places ME deciding to remain in the situation? I will accept the whole "no family on the holidays thing", but that makes her more angry as well because my boyfriend stayed with me on Easter, and that set her off again. I don't understand how that is my fault.

TRUST ME...im not saying its your fault! what im saying is youre in a situation that you can get out of if you WANTED to. How? by finding someone who's family accepts you for you. Now, should this alone drive you away??? it wouldnt drive me away either. BUT, if you want to be with this guy, you may have to make sacrifices and that includes him too. Did you just try talking to her????? it can work wonders

[Anya]

TRUST ME...im not saying its your fault! what im saying is youre in a situation that you can get out of if you WANTED to. How? by finding someone who's family accepts you for you. Now, should this alone drive you away??? it wouldnt drive me away either. BUT, if you want to be with this guy, you may have to make sacrifices and that includes him too. Did you just try talking to her????? it can work wonders

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Oh how I wish talking to her would improve something. Honestly, I do not think she's mentally stable. She is very angry and mean. From the first day I met Richard he told me that his sister is evil. I just laughed and thought he was kidding. She claims to be angry at me because I "changed her family" and "changed her brother", but he always says that is crazy because they have never been close or on good terms. Richard tries to protect me, but there isn't much he can do. It is just a crazy (older) girl that has no job and no money, and all she wants in life right now is to get at me. I feel like there should be some way to protect me from a person like that, but apparently I have to wait until after something more serious happens to do it.