OK, here's my 2 cents...and this is coming from a woman that started the academy at age 31.
The police force is at least 85% male, if not more. So, with that ratio, you're gonna get a lot of attention...good, bad and indifferent. I was treated equally in the academy. Then during my FTI period, I believe that I HAD to prove myself more than a guy would have to. And I understood a little bit as to why. I'm 120 soaking wet, and I'm gonna be someone's back up? How am I gonna save them? They wanted to see what I had...and I proved myself and we moved on.
I've been on the job over 6 years now, and I think everyone on my dept knows that I will kick butt, or at least get in there with you while both our butts are being kicked. What it comes down to is that I will never let a squad member hang...I'll be right there with you.
And with you being in your 30's also, you know how guys are. So I know you can handle yourself in that department. ;)
So, if you want to be a cop GO FOR IT! If anyone bugs you, tell them to kiss your a$$. :D
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