What can she do?

[testar]

I never have luck with women, damn it. Anyways:

My girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. All of a sudden said she wasn't in love with me. I do everything to get her back, but she ends up ending it. Kind of flips out, and all of a sudden says I was never good to her (not true, but anyways); keep in mind she's a bi-polar manic depressive.

So I'm messing around on my computer last night, and realize that I still can log onto her instant messanger program (she told me the password months ago, and never changed it). I then log into her E-mail (happens to be the same password), where I discover several months worth of sexual E-mails to some guy. She tells him how much she loves him (including a really mushy one timestamped February 14th, Valentine's Day. A day she told me she loved me, and I got her flowers and candy.) and that they're planning on getting married. Just great. Anyways, obviously I'm floored. I suspected NOTHING, and would have never been any the wiser had she never broken up with me. One of the E-mails talks about a trip she's going on with this guy to Washington (tomorrow morning, in fact... about a week after breaking up with me). I ask her about this over the phone and she denies it. Obviously she's lying, and doesn't know I've seen the E-mail. So, I print out all of the E-mails, and put them in a packet. I write "liar" all over the packet, and drop it off at her house on her car.

So basically, I call her to make sure she got it (and that her parents didn't find it... with all the sexual stuff in it, they would be mortified), and she says "Yes, I got it," very upset. Anyways, I say "Alrighty," and hang up. She calls back and I don't answer (she's dead to me -- cheaters are worthless). Anyways, a few minutes later she calls again (again, I don't answer) and says that if I don't leave her alone she's going to call the police (by the way, her dad's a cop... almost about to retire... just a patrol officer, lowest rank).

Can the cops do anything to me? I don't plan on responding to her or ever talking to her again (I'll see her at school though). I haven't threatened her in any way.

[Johninaustin]

:rolleyes:

[Group9]

You didn't like the answers they have you on 911jobsforum?

[Bearcat06]

You didn't like the answers they have you on 911jobsforum?

Apparently not because they closed it already...... :rolleyes:

[cecilVA]

You didn't like the answers they have you on 911jobsforum?

Thought I recognized the story :D

[valycop]

(by the way, her dad's a cop... almost about to retire... just a patrol officer, lowest rank).

Can the cops do anything to me? I don't plan on responding to her or ever talking to her again (I'll see her at school though). I haven't threatened her in any way.

First of all as a "Just a Patrol Officer, lowest rank" you'd better learn some manners on how you speak to others. If you disrespect the police so much or at least "Just a Patrol Officer, lowest rank" then why did you come to this site seeking advice? Learn how to use the english language properly young man if you expect others to respect you.

Now to your question, what you have just admitted to me in the Commonwealth of Virginia is a class one misdemeanor. I have no idea what state you're from, but here you've committed a crime. Can the police do anything about it that depends on your states laws in so far as the privacy laws.
Your ex-girlfriend may very well bring it to her fathers attention and if that happens you may very well have subjected yourself to arrest.


§ 18.2-152.5. Computer invasion of privacy.

A. A person is guilty of the crime of computer invasion of privacy when he uses a computer or computer network and intentionally examines without authority any employment, salary, credit or any other financial or personal information relating to any other person. "Examination" under this section requires the offender to review the information relating to any other person after the time at which the offender knows or should know that he is without authority to view the information displayed.

B. The crime of computer invasion of privacy shall be punishable as a Class 1 misdemeanor.

(1984, c. 751; 1985, c. 398; 2001, c. 358.)



Just so that all bases are covered here is Virginia's stalking law as well.


§ 18.2-60.3. Stalking; penalty.

A. Any person, except a law-enforcement officer, as defined in § 9.1-101, and acting in the performance of his official duties, and a registered private investigator, as defined in § 9.1-138, who is regulated in accordance with § 9.1-139 and acting in the course of his legitimate business, who on more than one occasion engages in conduct directed at another person with the intent to place, or when he knows or reasonably should know that the conduct places that other person in reasonable fear of death, criminal sexual assault, or bodily injury to that other person or to that other person's family or household member is guilty of a Class 1 misdemeanor.

B. A third or subsequent conviction occurring within five years of a conviction for an offense under this section or for a similar offense under the law of any other jurisdiction shall be a Class 6 felony.

C. A person may be convicted under this section irrespective of the jurisdiction or jurisdictions within the Commonwealth wherein the conduct described in subsection A occurred, if the person engaged in that conduct on at least one occasion in the jurisdiction where the person is tried. Evidence of any such conduct that occurred outside the Commonwealth may be admissible, if relevant, in any prosecution under this section provided that the prosecution is based upon conduct occurring within the Commonwealth.

D. Upon finding a person guilty under this section, the court shall, in addition to the sentence imposed, issue an order prohibiting contact between the defendant and the victim or the victim's family or household member.

E. The Department of Corrections, sheriff or regional jail director shall give notice prior to the release from a state correctional facility or a local or regional jail of any person incarcerated upon conviction of a violation of this section, to any victim of the offense who, in writing, requests notice, or to any person designated in writing by the victim. The notice shall be given at least fifteen days prior to release of a person sentenced to a term of incarceration of more than thirty days or, if the person was sentenced to a term of incarceration of at least forty-eight hours but no more than thirty days, twenty-four hours prior to release. If the person escapes, notice shall be given as soon as practicable following the escape. The victim shall keep the Department of Corrections, sheriff or regional jail director informed of the current mailing address and telephone number of the person named in the writing submitted to receive notice.

All information relating to any person who receives or may receive notice under this subsection shall remain confidential and shall not be made available to the person convicted of violating this section.

For purposes of this subsection, "release" includes a release of the offender from a state correctional facility or a local or regional jail (i) upon completion of his term of incarceration or (ii) on probation or parole.

No civil liability shall attach to the Department of Corrections nor to any sheriff or regional jail director or their deputies or employees for a failure to comply with the requirements of this subsection.

F. For purposes of this section:

"Family or household member" has the same meaning as provided in § 16.1-228.

(1992, c. 888; 1994, cc. 360, 521, 739; 1995, c. 824; 1996, cc. 540, 866; 1998, c. 570; 2001, c. 197; 2002, c. 377.)

[Menace]

blaow!!!

[Menace]

b L A O W !!!

[Menace]

Double posts suck...sorry

[valycop]

This boy also needs to learn about Slander and Libel.

Code of Virginia

§ 18.2-417. Slander and libel.

Any person who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning any female of chaste character, any words derogatory of such female's character for virtue and chastity, or imputing to such female acts not virtuous and chaste, or who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning another person, any words which from their usual construction and common acceptation are construed as insults and tend to violence and breach of the peace or shall use grossly insulting language to any female of good character or reputation, shall be guilty of a Class 3 misdemeanor.

The defendant shall be entitled to prove upon trial in mitigation of the punishment, the provocation which induced the libelous or slanderous words, or any other fact or circumstance tending to disprove malice, or lessen the criminality of the offense.

(Code 1950, § 18.1-256; 1960, c. 358; 1973, c. 526; 1975, cc. 14, 15.)

Why did I throw this in, you'd better be able to prove this statement too.

keep in mind she's a bi-polar manic depressive

[Star]

Can the cops do anything to me? I don't plan on responding to her or ever talking to her again (I'll see her at school though). I haven't threatened her in any way.

Hopefully. Take a good look at Valycops post then take a good look at your butt and kiss it goodbye.

Also, you must share the same illness as your ex-girlfriend to be poking around in someone elses' business and think nothing of it being personal.

[Johninaustin]

What can she do?

I'm all for her ripping his balls off with a pair of locking pliers myself.:D

Three guesses in this little story of who is REALLY bi-polar. :rolleyes:

[Legoate]

It's over, quit reading her emails, dropping envelopes off on her car with the words "Liar" on them, and stop calling her.

Depending on her version of the story, I'd feel fairly comfortable charging and arresting you for stalking.

Move on, it's obviously over. It's also obvious that she isn't the only one with some emotional problems.

[valycop]

Here is his original post over at 911jobs.

http://www.911jobforums.com/vB/showthread.php3?t=42174

Seems some of the guys over there didn't think too much of it either. I'll shut up now. :mad:

[Cat_Doc]

Move on, it's obviously over. It's also obvious that she isn't the only one with some emotional problems.

Ditto on that!