advice on minor harassing minor please.

[DltUNH]

Who elected you the RP representative? She was given plenty of good advice here. Momma needs to quit being melodramatic and feeding her daughters problem. :rolleyes:

Absolutely nobody did, for your first question. I'm sorry if you found my reply to come off that way. I agree with you that she was given plenty of good advice, but for some people it is hard to see. Some people need to be talked to in a different way, and from her 3rd reply I believe it was, she felt as if no one had helped her. I could see where she was coming from, and figured that because I was in a similar situation and did just what some of you figured and just took the verbal stuff, and yes not to be all Mooshy mooshy, I'm a better person now. As a matter of fact tx, I believe I agreed with you in my post and acknowledged you by name. Some people don't respond so well to "Sh#t happens, and that's ok. Dani, appeared to be one of those kinds of people.
I think highly of this website, and I will go to great measures to uphold it's reputation. I don't want people thinking that we're just a bunch of people who don't care about others problems. Danikay appeared to have that attitude, so I tried to put in my two pennies.

Can you see where I'm coming from now?

[DANIKAY]

We have actually tried that route by being nice, even when my daughter had bday parties she was invited, all the girls in the class were, but she never came. At schools I have even said hi to her, trying to be nice, I personally think this is a kid brought up in the wrong home with a parent that does not care what or where her kid is most of the time.
And I am probably a worry wart, maybe she is all talk, and no walk when it comes down to it, let's hope so anyways ! I really dont have to worry about it till next year when high school starts, I just worry for mine is all I guess.
I do know where my daughter is 99.9% of the time so I guess that is important, and I hope she wont be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

And I do thank those that gave me good advice, and I have also enjoyed reading some of the other posts as well, some are kind of scary, (wanna be cops in there own cars), and some are just funny!

deborah

[doomtsu]

Danikay......

You said that she hasn't been going to Jr. High with her, but will be attending HS with her. Have the two of them had any interaction since changing schools? I know you said that you live in different parts of town too.

I'm thinking that since she's been away from her, the girl may have found someone else to prey on in her absence. A lot changes in those years, so maybe things will be better.

All i can suggest is for your daughter to steer clear as much as possible, and do her own thing, and not re-ingnite any past issues. I'm sure that if this girl is as bad as you say, she'll get hers in the end. Most likely one of us will be locking her up in the near future.

[DANIKAY]

They have seen each other at the youth dances here..there is one big church that sponsors dances once a month for all the junior high kids...so that situation comes up..but those are very well chaperoned, and most of them have been notified of the problem as well.

The other place it has come up was last year, my daughter goes out for track, basketball, and volleyball, so when they have games at the other junior high, she likes to run her mouth there as well. But they had put an end to that, and the girl is no longer allowed to attend student events after school. (last years anyways..dont know about this year.)

and this girl just runs her mouth, i mean it goes and goes and goes. My daughter usually says something to me about it..we automatically tell her...ignore her...she wants to get the best of you is all.

so, we will keep doing the best that we can..and hope everything goes well, like i said, we still have a year before next year starts....

I have also heard that this gal flunked 7th grade...so she may not be going to high school afterall next year...but thats only a rumor..so who knows for sure? ( to me that would be a blessing in disguise.)

deborah