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BlueRain
10-03-02, 04:30 PM
I just have to share this with you guys...
http://groups.msn.com/Womenwholovecops/messageboard.msnw
It's a website full of badgebunnies looking for cops who will date them. LOL
I can't stop laughing!!
Hothandz
10-03-02, 09:10 PM
Pathetic lot... hehehehe
SaraKay
10-04-02, 08:51 PM
I have heard of girls like that before but thought they were a figment of some screen writer's imagination. Looks like I was wrong.
Island_Girl
10-05-02, 08:10 AM
They should rename the community "Women in Heat".
ahahahhah what shall i say
the new modern days ....... well funny there's cop response to it too
dont really know whether they are real or not but it seems funny to me
BlueRain,
Well ahahahhah aren't this a good thing, that you always have a secret admire! First of all, and well secondly i could say that there's something well not something but dont really know how to say.
Funny to know there's somebody like this around, but i can guarantee you that there's no male or female who like Malaysia cops. Why? Physically all fat, and very fat, not fit not in shape in any sense. And Not friendly :)
I found people in Singaopre stating that they are cop lover too and well there's actually a Singaporian female around 19yo this year keep on stalking to me, and she said i am a cop. I am not a cop at all this moment. Haven't went for interview etc, but she said, i will soon be a cop. Oh my god! Can you imagine that,
thank god she will only bug me in icq.
I hate such sites . . . Some people are really naive ...omg...
well eric what to do? you can't just stop their freedom of doing so else you will be in big trouble.
America
12-27-02, 03:06 PM
When you mentioned "Bunnies" I thought you were referring to immoral women who get trashy pictures taken. I read the sites first page of messages. It's just women who are looking for cops (men). It could save them time and at least they're not after criminals. It does sound funny...the sites title.... but cops tend to have better morals, are often a bit gutsy, respect peoples rights, etc. so there are plenty of reasons someone might prefer one of THEM to even a gorgeous entertainer whose job goals aren't as important to people. There do seem to be those women who mention the mens looks and sex appeal like that's ALL they care about. Happy New Year everyone.
As once mentioned on another thread.
Women that go after cops just because they are cops have a bad reputation and they deserve it.
Weirdos, chasing after a person just because of the job they do.
You're right, they do deserve the bad reputation that they have. That's mostly because the majority of them go after married cops. They don't see that wedding ring on my husband's finger as any kind of road block at all. Luckily, I have a man with the morals to resist all the temptation but still it's the principal of the thing!
America
12-28-02, 09:21 AM
There are alot of bad people out there period; not always committing crimes but trying to get others to sin with them like followers of Satan or something. I'm sure you know there are people with good intentions out there who do get their healthy self esteem at least partly from thinking with goodness. Some people may simply want to be around people who THINK and act like them in ways. Afterall, some people are dedicated to their jobs because they care. They don't do it just for the adventure or security or because it's interesting. And some people MAY like someone in a certain occupation because of this reason. When I was in the militar I looked for military guys first but just thse that were dedicated and PATRIOTIC types. However, I can see many people ...maybe most being superficial or not caring if they were ruining a relationship, or bothering a cop, etc. Happy New Year. Wish you all the best. America
txinvestigator1
12-28-02, 02:04 PM
Uhmmm,
can someone decipher that for me?
Badge bunny alert tx......lol.
LMAO! Don't hold back sorrel!! Maybe we should have made you moderator!! Love the bluntness! U go girl!
Island_Girl
12-29-02, 10:46 AM
I get what America is trying to convey, I believe she just had some trouble getting the point across. In my opinion, I think it takes a pretty special person to do a LE job. I think that there is often times more integrity in a person that becomes an officer. What's not attractive about that?!?!
My problem with these sites (not so much a 'problem', but a minor annoyance) is the lack of class that some people have when it comes to meeting people. They just throw themselves all over people on the site, or in person for that matter. Trashy is not going to land these people any kind of lasting committment, cop or not.
As for badge-bunnies, I was born to be one! Thank GOD I fell in love with the first one I dated, who knows how many I would've had to sleep with before I found him.....heehee!!! He's the greatest guy I've ever met, all the way around.
IslandGirl,
I agree with you on every point. Cops have more self-assurance too, and that is attractive to a lot of people.
I also get annoyed to have to listen to or watch women throw themselves at these guys, especially the married ones. If I ever married a cop, it would piss me off to watch these women throw themselves at them.
I work very closely with cops every day, and talk to about a hundred different cops a night. I would say about 90% of them flirt with me, calling me "honey" "dear" "sweetie" or asking me personal questions or asking to meet me. Out of those 90, about 80 are married. I take it with a grain of salt and just laugh off their advances, but if these guys hit on me, I can only imagine how they flirt with other women out on the road.
DWCO322
12-29-02, 02:50 PM
What's even worse Stump, is the married cop who seeks out the badgebunnies. And then when someone tries to inform the wife, she dismisses it as "neighborhood rumors." I have witnessed it personally. Pretty sad how one "rotten apple" can spoil the pie.
I would like to think that these guys flirt with me because they know I am "safe" (They know I don't date people I work with and definitely don't do married men), but I know that is not the case.
I have seen girlfriends call up to leave messages for the guys, have had wives call asking for their husbands when they aren't working, and all that I have to keep quiet.
I know of a LOT of cops that will sleep with a badge bunny - then pass her around to the other cops. It sickens me.
It isn't the job that makes the man, or woman for that matter.
It is the man or woman that makes the job.
Chasing after anyone because of what they "do" for a living, would you want someone to chase after you just because of what you "do" for a living?
I sure would not.
Liking the job and not the person....it is too wierd to me.
Liking a person just because the job they do, equally wierd to me.
:rolleyes:
BlueRain
12-30-02, 10:31 AM
Wow. I don't understand how these badge bunnies (lightbar lickers etc) think. If I hadn't met my LEO before he was a cop, I would never be with him. It's way to much stress being with an LEO. Too much to worry about every day. Why would anyone want to subject themselves to that if they didn't have to?
Don't get me wrong, I love my LEO and wouldn't trade him in for the world, but I think I'd feel more secure if he were a pro wrestler!! :D
cherryjell0
12-31-02, 12:40 AM
Maybe some of them are just looking for an 'in' for when they get into trouble and can't post their own bail lol.
vbgecko
02-08-03, 05:09 AM
In the words of ZZ Top : "Every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man."
I think its the appeal to the uniform & the authority er something ... god only knows.
The stigma badge chasers leave for other females actually serious about going into the field is quite rediculous. No nevermind if you're a guy hanging out with cops, but as soon as ya grow a pair of tits you're only there for shallow reasons :(
America
02-09-03, 04:54 PM
When I first read this thread I clicked on the site and read the first page of messages, but everything was vague, and no-one said much so I assumed most people were writing each other by private email. I wanted to know what was so terrible about a site that wasn't obviously disrespectful at the time, afterall, the name sounded loving, is all. I thought it might be as nice as a site called "People Who Prefer To Associate With Cops."
Anyhow, Although I didn't desire to join them, I made up a name and called myself MissMorals. No-one said, "What are you doing on here with that name, but MAYBE they wondered. Anyhow, it took awhile (weeks) before I found out from a few people that I was on a trashy,"adult picture" accepting, worthless people site. I had two guys write me while I was a member (about a month ago), one asked "Just out of curiosity, where are you from?" I answered by telling him where I've lived. But could have said, "Sometimes I wonder if I'm from a different world with all the sin and devil-followers in action. Cause that's what many people on the site are doing wether they go to a satanic church or not."
I clicked bak onto this site today to see the titles/subjects of their messages posted...and at least it's made clear now that they're a dirty site if nothing else. So now I doubt If some decent cop would ever accidently join them...cause he would clearly see what they're all about.
At the same time, I want to make it clear that all women who prefer cops don't chase them or bother them (why MAKE someone care about you anyhow? Would that be care?) And not all would want a married guy, or flirt while he's working especially if they're trying to get out of a ticket or something. There's all kinds. Some people are tired of looking for good people so they check out church groups, or within certain law-abiding/supporting groups, etc. I adore cops in general but I would tell a guys wife if her husband came on to me, and report a cop who wasn't acting professionally; although I have yet to experience either of those.
America
allusivewolf
02-17-03, 06:49 PM
like not stero typing here or trying to
but women around military bases. i have seen so many people get married to thier soul mate, oh i love her she is the one , well i know that i have only known her for 4 hours. mean while while we are out of country she is taking all his money running up his credit cards. and sleeping with any new marine that she can find. havent heard of the internet thing personally yet.
but hey if it works then great, but some people are just out to make an easy buck, they dont care who they destroy in the process
todd5874
02-27-03, 02:17 AM
Just wait 'til one of them meets a cop and discovers he's working all night long, can't make it to holiday dinners, can't spend the weekend with her parents, and gets the callout page when they have an intimate night at home planned.
It's all fun and games until someone loses an eye.
vbgecko
02-27-03, 09:27 PM
Originally posted by todd5874
It's all fun and games until someone loses an eye.
Then its hilarious! LMAO :p
todd5874
04-04-03, 07:58 PM
Originally posted by vbgecko
Then its hilarious! LMAO :p
Unless it's YOUR eye!!!
Island_Girl
04-05-03, 09:28 AM
Originally posted by todd5874
Just wait 'til one of them meets a cop and discovers he's working all night long, can't make it to holiday dinners, can't spend the weekend with her parents, and gets the callout page when they have an intimate night at home planned.
I can count on all my fingers, toes, and the toes of my children how many times our "moments" have been interrupted by a call. It doesn't help that our current job location comes with the added bonus of having our home phone number listed in the phone book under our government agency. Nice.
Rad Diver
07-04-03, 11:34 PM
It all goes with the job (i.e. callouts, late nights etc.) as for sleeping around while/with married persons: INTEGRITY, INTEGRITY, INTEGRITY!! And Oh yeah, HONOR and Respect!!!
I'm lucky my wife comes from a family of LEO's and knows what to expect.
txinvestigator1
07-05-03, 01:01 AM
Umm, Rad, the last post here was early April. This was pretty much a dead issue.
TX dahling, but he is new! Its a new topic for him.. :) Nothing wrong with reviving things.
I don't think 90% of our cops here have any morals when it comes to their marriages and single cops dating.
txinvestigator1
07-05-03, 12:45 PM
Originally posted by Stump
TX dahling, but he is new! Its a new topic for him.. :) Nothing wrong with reviving things.
I don't think 90% of our cops here have any morals when it comes to their marriages and single cops dating.
90%??????? really???:(
Switchback
07-05-03, 12:52 PM
Originally posted by Stump
TX dahling, but he is new! Its a new topic for him.. :) Nothing wrong with reviving things.
I don't think 90% of our cops here have any morals when it comes to their marriages and single cops dating.
I am really biting my tongue with this one!!!
Norm357
07-05-03, 01:54 PM
Originally posted by Stump
TX dahling, but he is new! Its a new topic for him.. :) Nothing wrong with reviving things.
I don't think 90% of our cops here have any morals when it comes to their marriages and single cops dating.
That brush is a little broad there huh stump.
Yup, I am, Norm, but you should see it here. I really don't want to have another discussion about this because some people don't believe me and I can't exactly have any other facts to back me up except what I see, hear, and know. Y'all can get as mad at me as you want, but I don't see cops as being especially moral people when it comes to respecting their marital vows.
Jynkxxie
07-05-03, 07:32 PM
I would agree and disagree...it is not the job...it is the character initially...while you may be able to cite similarities in patterns based on profession...I have known others NON-LE just as bad...there are no excuses...but not everyone in blue cheats...or disrespects their marital vows...
Just My Two
Switchback
07-05-03, 07:34 PM
All I'll say is that people living in glass houses should not be casting stones.
realpolice
07-05-03, 08:07 PM
Well, that link has obviously been taken over, lol. I'm going to go ahead and close this thread as it's a bit out of date. :D