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patchcop
07-11-12, 03:06 PM
For my partner who was on my side for 29 years. We had 16 years on patrol, 8 years as community policing officers and the last five years in our warrant and street crime team together. His funeral will be this comming friday.
Rest in peace my friend. I hope you'll find what you missed with us!
Blackgoat06
07-11-12, 04:33 PM
Sorry for your loss patch
retdetsgt
07-11-12, 07:15 PM
So sorry to hear that. I know that it can be just like losing a family member...
besafe2
07-11-12, 08:36 PM
Patch sorry for your loss. Prayers have been said.
Deepest sympathies and condolences Sir! RIP! :(
marinepilot
07-11-12, 11:42 PM
Sending you prayers, Patch, and also to your partners family.
Condolences and prayers to you and yours.
suzanne1020U.S.
07-12-12, 02:01 AM
Oh, Patch, this brought tears to my eyes, for I know the heartache you must be feeling.
I love you, and if you ever need to talk about your partner I'm always here for you.
Love and light-God bless you.
pafindr
07-12-12, 02:14 AM
Sorry for you loss Patch.
Sending prayers your way.
deputywave
07-12-12, 11:03 PM
Thoughts and prayers sent. RIP
Norm357
07-12-12, 11:30 PM
Sorry for you loss.
ChesCopPodz
07-13-12, 12:06 AM
Sorry for your loss.
sgtbear111
07-13-12, 04:43 AM
Patch, sending prayers and wishing you Fair Winds and Following Seas..
patchcop
07-14-12, 02:45 PM
Thanks to all of you. Dolli (his nickname in our dept.) was one of the best cops I met in my 33 years career, we fought so much fights together, safed our asses out there, back uped us in uncountable nights, made so much arrests together - we tried to give our citizens a safer world. And after so much years he don't pushed the emergency button and called for my help when his life broke together. And it so easy for a cop to leave so much broken hearts and souls when he finished his life by himself. Now after 12 days I really don't know how to handle this situation. I hoped that I can find my freedom yesterday when I was at his funural, but my wife, the best wife of all in the world, told me that I had very bad dreams last night. And also today I had wet eyes a couple of times and bad, bad thoughts. But I hold myself busy, make 12-13 hour shifts in a logistic unit in this moment. So I don't have to look at his desk in our bureau daily.
Thanks again to all the prayers and wishes.
Dolli leaves his wife and his 22 and 20 yoa daughters, and so much officers in my team, who loved him.
Dolli leaves his wife and his 22 and 20 yoa daughters, and so much officers in my team, who loved him.
It happens way to often to LE in U.S. and is underreported. I hope you and your department have counseling available and I hope you you can reassure the best wife in the world and loved ones that your 12-13 hour shifts are your way of healing and not have them worry you are on that same path. More prayers sent for you and yours.
PathosLogos
07-14-12, 08:35 PM
Praying for you patch, and for all the loved ones he left behind...
besafe2
07-14-12, 09:14 PM
Patch:
Again you are in my prayers. This stuff is hard on everyone. I hope you will talk to some one. God bless you & all the others.