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this is in illinoise around edwardsville area my father got a girlfriend who is not much older than i am (20) she has been in prision alot and she keeps stealing money from him she is back on heroin and he will not get rid of her but im wondering i know above and beyond she is back on herion but idk if she has alot on her but is there anyway to get her out of our house and out of our lives because all she is doing is tearing us apart like my dad has never asked me fore money and these past couple years he has known her i been carrying him my fiance his house and two trucks with my insurance if he got rid of her then everything would go back to normal so im looking for a way like should i tip off the police about her drug habbit? i mean the local police have already arrested her once for drugs and stuff of that nature so any help would be greatly appritiated

this is in illinoise around edwardsville area my father got a girlfriend who is not much older than i am (20) she has been in prision alot and she keeps stealing money from him she is back on heroin and he will not get rid of her but im wondering i know above and beyond she is back on herion but idk if she has alot on her but is there anyway to get her out of our house and out of our lives because all she is doing is tearing us apart like my dad has never asked me fore money and these past couple years he has known her i been carrying him my fiance his house and two trucks with my insurance if he got rid of her then everything would go back to normal so im looking for a way like should i tip off the police about her drug habbit? i mean the local police have already arrested her once for drugs and stuff of that nature so any help would be greatly appritiated

Your complicated issue is made even more complicated here on RP by the fact that you refuse to use any punctuation or follow any rules of grammar, which make it INCREDIBLY difficult to read.

As for your issue, I would say that truthfully, the only thing you can control is yourself. If you want him to see her for what you see her for, stop carrying him financially and move out on your own. He may be upset with you for a while, but hopefully he comes to the realization that she's a huge leech and is sucking him dry. Once his flow (which is actually YOUR flow) comes to an end, she'll have no use for him and move on. Then she'll be out of his life and you can be there to catch his fall.

As for tipping the local law enforcement agency off, I would be careful with that while I'm still living there with her. If there are drugs in the house and you've known about it for a while, you could possibly get rolled up in that stink also.

What Marinepilot said, all of what he said.

You should move out immediately and cut off any and all financial support. Period.

If you cannot be bothered to write in a comprehensible manner, I cannot be bothered to try to help you.